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Book Reviewby Pat Bertschy“Loving Frank”
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If Mamah leaves her husband, how will she support herself? How can she desert her children? How will society react?
Nancy Horan had a difficult job in creating the character of Mamah from the very few letters and writings that she left. The result is a complex character whose life leaves us with questions.
Did Mamah yearn for independence and intellectual fulfillment, or did she become dissatisfied with her “simple life” and simply fall in love with Frank? The reader wonders whether Mamah made deliberate choices in her life or allowed circumstances to make them for her.
Loving Frank raises universal questions facing women: what are a woman’s rights, what are women’s responsibilities, and what can women do when they are in conflict? Is it any easier for us to answer these questions in 2009, than it was in 1907?
“You’re too tall.”
Three words that shattered my dream
of becoming a ballerina,
spinning and leaping in Swan Lake,
partnered and held by strong masculine arms,
welcoming “bravos” at curtain calls
“You’re too tall.”
I did not have the body of a ballerina.—
tiny, flat-chested, lighter than air.
But my 36C hourglass figure
overflowed with natural grace
and a strong rhythmic sense,
embodying complicated routines easily.
“You’re too tall.”
My dream went underground,
joined by others –
pianist, model, UN interpreter,
Broadway musical star, Ph.D. psychologist –
banished from the world of possibility
by the words of so-called experts.
Then I saw her –
six foot tall Nubian Lady,
silhouetted on a backlit stage
posture erect
head held high, crowned
by a skull-embracing afro,
ebony skin glowing.
She claimed the space with
sensual moves, the curves
and planes of her body
showing through her long black dress.
Her eyes flashed with strength and power.
I watched, entranced and close to tears,
thinking about what might have been.
Now, my dreams are made of stronger stuff.
“Experts” and naysayers have no place
in the heart and soul of my longings.
I say “Oh, yeah? Watch me!”
“Anything is possible.”
The Nubian Lady told me so.